I love leadership books, all of them. Even the bad ones have at least small nuggets of wisdom that can make you better. But, no matter how many you always find yourself in a situation no author has every addressed before. Heck, the list below might even be something you've never even thought of before! Either way here are my 7 coaching rules you never needed until now...
1. Take your sunglasses off when addressing your team/player
Its no secret that eye contact can help with effective communication. If you don't know that then this blog isn't for you and you're beyond any help you can find here. But, if you're like me and like to rock the shades take them off when your talking with your squad. No one enjoys talking to a person of authority when they can't see their eyes. Need an example? Think of the last time a cop talked to you and kept his glasses on, it makes the whole interaction feel inhuman. So next time take your shades off and see the difference in eye contact and retention when they get back on the field.
2. Don't mess with another team's roster
We all have favorite players who enriched the coaching experience. Be it high school, college, club, or pro you build a bond with that player who embodies what your program is about and becomes the poster child for how it should work. Now, that player will go on to do bigger and better things and you will cease to be their coach. Its your duty as the past coach NOT to interfere with their career or their team's flow. Now, that doesn't mean you shouldn't invite them back for activities that will benefit your team like fundraising dinner or tournaments. But, never should you ask that player to commit to an activity that will have a direct negative effect on their own seasons and their teams. If it is that important that they attend then schedule it around their current commitments. It is disrespectful, selfish and will cause undue criticism of you and your program.
3. Stay out of the locker room/training room
A coach has his sanctuary, its could be his office, a path he walks before a game, a watering hole. Where ever the spot may be you don't like people who normally aren't there in it. Players feel the same way about their locker room. Its the one safe place they can go to get away from everything including you the coach. If you need to go in there make it short and quick (think pre-game address) and get out. Respect their space and you might be surprised how the team dynamic matures and team policing begins. This is also true for the training room. Speaking of training rooms...
4. Find a good Athletic trainer/physio
Besides the obvious reason that you want someone knowledgeable in injury prevention and treatment you also want a trainer who is socially aware of what is going around around them. These professionals often have a better feel for your teams actual pulse then you do, and this could be a huge tool for you. Players speak freely around the medical personnel and the med staff often hear things that can benefit you as a coach. I've had staff members tell me "Coach, the players are complaining about fatigue and we have seen a spike in fatigue related injuries." This is great as I can adjust my training plan accordingly. Other times they have come to me with information that can help me adjust the culture of the team (hazing, bullying, etc). Finally, always make time to meet with them or include them in staff meetings with allotted time to speak on topics they deem important to the team.
5. Don't always believe the stats
We are in the age of sabermetrics, Money Ball team building, and all those other fancy math dominate systems that you see and read about that has helped improve some struggling team. I'm not saying these stats don't have a place in the game because I honestly believe they do. But I'm saying is that statical analysis should work in connection with the eye test. At the end of the day we are coaches and we have been around our respective sports long enough to know when we see a good player. Watch how they handle defeat, interact with team mates and coaches, and their production on the field. Trust your judgment on those things before turning to the stats. Recently I sat in on a selection meeting and listened to half the table argue for selecting a player because she plays good rugby and the other half countering they shouldn't bring her because her statistical numbers weren't as high as some of the other players in her position. Neither side would look at the other's perspective which, in my opinion, only hurt the player. Do yourself and the player a favor and don't just rely on numbers because there is no stat for character.
6. It is OK to give days off and take one off for yourself at the same time
Somewhere along the lines we were brain washed to believe the more we practice the better we will be. Its flat out not true, its not about the quantity its the quality of which you are practicing. I've been on teams and have seen teams be run into the ground by over training. Its why I'm telling you its OK to give days off. Its good for you as the coach and its good for the team as a whole. It helps combat the grind of a season, allows everyone to mentally recharge, and is a good reset button for team morale. What do I mean by a reset button? In my own experience I have had teams where their training sessions have regressed over several weeks. No amount of 'let's go'-ing, 'try harder'-'s seemed to be work. So, instead of trying to grind it out of them I just gave them a day off. The clear, social up-front contract is given that the time should be used wisely and not wasted so when they return we, as a team, will be ready to go. By the next session they are back looking crisp and most importantly having fun. Even the Head Coach of the L.A. Clippers, Doc Rivers, is a fan of days offs. The only time this has not worked is when I have failed to prepare properly and time is wasted at training. Again, the day off is important for you too. So use it to work ahead in your practice planning and make sure its efficient with little time wasted. Don't forget, quality always beats quantity.
7. Hire assistance who are better than you and encourage them to be head coaches
If you read that and thought I was crazy stop reading, close the browser, open Word, and write your resignation letter now to save yourself the embarrassment of being fired later. Your support staff is more important then yourself. They are the ones that keep you employed and your team winning. We are all ego-maniacs and control freaks to some degree so it can be hard to grasp the idea of not being able to do it all by yourself. Identify your weak areas as a coach (or find someone who will, should be plenty of people) then hire people who are strong in those areas. The next step after assembling your coaching team is to foster growth and development. You should want them to be head coaches someday and encourage them to chase those dreams down while developing on your staff. If you have read the book 'Tribal Leadership' you know how helpful it can be to go from a 'I'm great, you're not' mindset (this thinking is common in coaches, listen for the famous 'well, Coach (insert name)'s (insert unit) didn't perform today' comment) to a much more team orientated 'We are great, they are not'. The difference from the first one (where you think you are king of the castle) to the second (thinking more like protecting your castle along side your nights) is a massive shift in philosophy. For ever great coach like San Francisco 49ers great Bill Walsh, who has a impressive coach lineage, you have a million knuckleheads who always tried to be the best coach on the team. Don't be a knucklehead.
I hope these were helpful and caused you to think about some things you might do differently. As always leave me a comment with some feedback.
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